How do you choose captains for your teams? Do you mold a player into a leader of their team?
Leadership qualities are taught by the coach of each team. The saying goes, “in order to lead, you must first be a great follower.”
Learn how to develop leaders
We have all followed a coach at one point of our lives and we continue to follow even if we are leaders in our own way. I am a father and husband who believes he is leading his daughter down the right path. Same goes for my soccer teams, I need to make sure I give my players the correct advice in order for them to make their own decisions on the field.
Visual Learners
I think it is safe to say that most people are visual learners. We must see something first in order to understand it better. I am of the belief that if you have players on your team that are not doing a drill or executing your instructions correctly, you must be able to show them yourself.
If you are a coach, be sure to raise the bar of expectations for each drill a little more each time. This may be doing a certain drill quicker, more accurate, stronger, or just limiting mistakes. What I like to do at my sessions is have a contest to see who finishes the drill the quickest.
Example – First one to 50 bells, toe taps, scissors, etc.
If you are a parent, be sure to ask your child if they enjoy the challenges their coach provides or if their coach challenges them enough. We all know our kids best so if you think your child has leadership qualities be sure to ask them questions.
Keep the drills fresh
Players tend to get complacent after doing the same drills over and over. It is the coach’s job to keep the training sessions fresh and exciting to bring about the best in each player.
A great way to see who your team leaders are is to put them in tough situations. A great drill I use is playing 3 v 2 or a keep away game of 8 v 4. The team with the least amount of players is forced to work together to win the ball if they lose it and work hard to maintain possession as well. You will see right away if there are leadership qualities in each player when they are up against the wall.
Who is hungry for the ball? Who talks and helps their teammates?
Everyone is a leader
Each player is their own leader and must learn to lead themselves first in order to lead their team. Once your players understand to push themselves first and lead by example, they will in turn push each other to become their best.
As a coach and player myself, I know what good leadership is on and off the field. Before you step on the pitch, you must make sure you are focused. If your mind is on something other than the task at hand, you have already failed.
Kids can be all taught to be leaders and it is vital that the coach reiterates this message to everyone. Parents must also instill the belief of leadership in their child to perform at their highest level.
Here are a few ways we found help improve leadership in our players
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Who is your favorite player?
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What does your favorite player do best?
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What can you improve on the most?
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This will have them analyze themselves and realize they need to push themselves
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How good do you want to be?
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You may get mixed answers but most young players will say, “be a professional soccer player!”
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Here you explain that in order for them to get there they need to improve themselves and their teammates
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Are you giving it your all?
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From 1-10, how hard are you working right now? Can you work harder?
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This tells them they can and should work harder
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Are you a good teammate?
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Is this a team sport or individual sport?
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Explain that the objective of the game is to be a team in order to win
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Win and lose as a team
Learn to analyze
These are a few questions you can ask your players or child in order to get them thinking differently. The important thing to remember is that they need to realize where they can go by first leading themselves.
The beautiful game is beautiful for many reasons but one of my favorite reasons is to watch kids learn about themselves and grow as human beings. It is rewarding to have a great impact on futures of the children and how they can become leaders on and off the field.
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